I’m out! So what happens now?
The decision has been made and you’ve had the talk so what happens now? And what effect will the choices you make have on your future? I’m out, so what happens now? For most of us separation or divorce is uncharted waters. It is big change. Big change in our lives, big change in all[...]
Read MoreLawyers, who needs ’em!
Are all lawyers the same, will they make things better or worse, what will they actually do for me and do we even need them? Why are lawyers like nuclear bombs? If one side gets one the other side wants one and if you use them everything gets smashed and burned and messed up forever.[...]
Read MoreThe Talk
Ok, I’ve made the decision but I am dreading the talk. So how do I tell my spouse that it’s over? So how do you have the talk and how do you prepare to tell your spouse that you want a separation or divorce? It will likely be one of the most difficult and painful conversations[...]
Read MoreNew Year New Me?
Help! I’ve made the decision but I don’t want a fight. So where do I go from here and how does it actually work? New Year New Me? It sounds so easy but if that means you have decided to separate it is only the first of many decisions. You have probably heard the horror[...]
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Semi Separation. Is it the new conscious uncoupling?
Weirdo-chic power couple Grimes and Elon Musk have announced they are ending their relationship after three years together. Well, actually, they’re not quite ending their relationship, they are actually going to have a “semi-separation”. A little weird but maybe it’s not actually as weird as it sounds. “We are semi-separated but still love each other, see each[...]
Read MoreHelp! How do I pay for my separation?
Separation is hard enough without having to worry about how you are going to pay for it while still keeping everyone fed. But there are a few simple tricks and a few services out there that will help you cover the cost of your separation . A perfect storm of stress Help! how do I[...]
Read MoreDivorce Joy.
I want what she’s having This story and the photos that go with it gave us a good chuckle at Brightside. Both Liz Maupin and Nicole Kidman couldn’t have more divorce joy if they tried! But if there is one thing we have learned it’s that not everyone feels that way when it is finally[...]
Read MoreA DIY divorce, well sort of.
The Attorney General’s office of the Federal Government has released a guide for a DIY divorce, well sort of a DIY divorce. Unfortunately it is 50 pages long and seems to be written by lawyers, so you need to be a lawyer yourself or have several weeks or months to be able to work it[...]
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